d’four people

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No doubt, everyone wants to find their love one and life is a process of finding love. But do you know something my friends, everyone needs to find four kinds people in their life. To believe or not…it’s up to you.

The first person is you;
The second person is the one you love most;
The third person is the one who love you most;
And the fourth is the one you spend the rest of your life with.

First, you’ll meet with the one you love most and learn how love feels. When know how love feels, you can find the person who loves u most. When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved, you’ll then know what you need the most. Then you’ll find the person who is most suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with.

Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person unless you’re lucky. Well, are you?

The one you love the most doesn’t love you.
The one, who love you the most, is not the one you love most.
And the one you’re gonna spend your life with, is never the one u love most or the one who love u most. He is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the right time.

Which person are you in other people’s life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart. At the point in time when he loves you, he really loves you. But when he doesn’t love you anymore, he really doesn’t love you anymore. When he loves you, he can’t pretend that he doesn’t. Same goes, when he loves you no more, there’s no way he can pretend he loves you.

When a person doesn’t love you and wants to leave you. You must ask yourself if u still love
him, if you also don’t love him anymore, don’t keep him just to save your pride. If you still love him, you should wish him happiness, and hope that he will be with the one he loves most, not stop him from it. If you stop him from finding true happiness with the one he loves, it shows you already don’t love him, and if u don’t love him, what rights do you have to blame him for a change of heart?

Love isn’t possessive. If you like the moon, you can’t just take it down and put it in your basin. But the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words: when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person. Let him become a permanent memory in your life.

If you really love a person, u must love him for what he is. Love him for his good points, and the bad. You can’t wish for him to become like what you like him to be just because you love him. If he can’t change to become what u like him to be, you don’t love him anymore?

When you really love a person, you can’t find a reason why you love him. You only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be with you. Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criteria.

In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times, not always be on the receiving end. Being away from each other is a type of test; if the relationship isn’t strong then you can only admit defeat. Real love will never become hate.

When two people are in love, they love to ask each other to swear, to make promises. Why do they ask each other to swear and promise? Coz they don’t trust each other, they don’t trust their lover. These swear and promises are useless; ‘till the sky falls, ‘till the ocean dry, my love for you’ll never change!

We all know that the sky will never fall; the ocean will never dry, even if it does happen, are we still alive by then???

Be careful when making promises; don’t make promises that you can’t keep. Swear by things that can never happen, coz it can never happen, so no harm just saying it casually. Remember, swearing by things that can never happen are the most touching!! In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what you do is another; if the one who is saying not believe in the words then don’t expect the one who’s listening to believe in it. It just doesn’t work that way dear.

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There are some people who see their love life seems doesn’t go well as they hope to be. True, it always hurt. But those words truly have great meaning and also true it’s easily written yet absolutely difficult to do. So the option is up to you…anything that comforts you…

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